Proverbs 26:4-5
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The crucial part of this verse isn't just about if you answer a fool, but how. The warning isn't against engaging at all, but against mirroring the fool's own "folly" in your response, lest you descend to their level and lose your own wisdom in the exchange.
Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes.
English Standard Version (ESV)
This proverb appears within a collection of wisdom sayings that often present seemingly contradictory advice, requiring discernment. Immediately following this, Proverbs 26:5 will offer the counter-command to "Answer a fool according to his folly." The surrounding context thus sets up a tension, urging the wise to consider how and when to engage with foolishness, rather than offering a simple prohibition or endorsement.
Ever get drawn into an argument and suddenly realize you're acting just as badly as the person you're arguing with? This verse speaks directly to that frustrating experience.
The Danger of Mimicry
The core warning here is about how you answer a fool. The phrase "according to his folly" means imitating their style. If they are using insults, wild accusations, or nonsensical logic, responding in kind will drag you down to their level. It's like fighting fire with fire – you might stop the immediate blaze, but you'll end up covered in soot.
Sometimes the best response isn't an argument at all. This proverb hints at a deeper wisdom about discerning the right way to handle foolishness.
Strategic Engagement (or Non-Engagement)
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While Proverbs 26:4 warns against answering according to folly, other verses in Proverbs suggest there are times to answer a fool. The key lies in understanding the context and the purpose of your response.
Understand the original words
ʿānāh · Hebrew Verb
To respond or reply, often implying an interaction that carries consequences; in the context of wisdom, it involves discerning when and how to engage with the discourse of others.
ʾiwwelṯ · Hebrew Noun
A lack of discernment, a rejection of godly wisdom, or behavior that is morally bankrupt and contrary to the fear of the Lord. It signifies a person acting as if God does not exist or does not matter.
ḥākām · Hebrew Adjective
Possessing divine insight, practical skill for living, or the ability to apply the fear of God to everyday decisions. To be 'wise' is to align one’s life with the reality of God’s truth.
This passage calls believers to always be prepared to give an answer for their hope, but crucially adds 'with gentleness and respect,' echoing Proverbs' warning not to descend to the fool's level.
Matthew 7:6Jesus warns 'Do not give dogs what is holy, and do not throw your pearls before pigs.' This strongly parallels the wisdom of knowing when engagement will be fruitless and potentially damaging, preserving your own integrity.
Romans 12:17-21This passage instructs us to 'repay no one evil for evil' and to 'conquer evil with good.' It provides the positive alternative to answering folly with folly, showing how to respond with Christ-like love and patience.
2 Timothy 2:23-24Paul advises Timothy to 'avoid foolish, ignorant controversies, knowing that they breed quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to all.' This highlights the importance of discernment in avoiding unproductive and degrading debates.
pooleProverbs 26:4: "Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him."
How can these contrary rules be reconciled, answer him not , and answer him ? Answ . Easily, by considering the difference of persons, and times, and places, and other circumstances, and of the manner of answering. And such seemingly contradictory precepts are not only used by, but are esteemed elegant in, other authors. Answer him not, when he is incorrigible, or when he is inflamed with passion or wine…
gillProverbs 26:4: "Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him."
Answer not a fool according to his folly,.... Sometimes a fool, or wicked man, is not to be answered at all; as the ministers of Hezekiah answered not a word to Rabshakeh; nor Jeremiah the prophet to Hananiah; nor Christ to the Scribes and Pharisees; and when an answer is returned, it should not be in his foolish way and manner, rendering evil for evil, and railing for railing, in the same virulent, lyin…
The crucial part of this verse isn't just about if you answer a fool, but how. The warning isn't against engaging at all, but against mirroring the fool's own "folly" in your response, lest you descend to their level and lose your own wisdom in the exchange.
This proverb appears within a collection of wisdom sayings that often present seemingly contradictory advice, requiring discernment. Immediately following this, Proverbs 26:5 will offer the counter-command to "Answer a fool according to his folly." The surrounding context thus sets up a tension, urging the wise to consider how and when to engage with foolishness, rather than offering a simple prohibition or endorsement.
This proverb appears within a collection of wisdom sayings that often present seemingly contradictory advice, requiring discernment. Immediately following this, Proverbs 26:5 will offer the counter-command to "Answer a fool according to his folly." The surrounding context thus sets up a tension, urging the wise to consider how and when to engage with foolishness, rather than offering a simple prohibition or endorsement.
"Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes." — The crucial part of this verse isn't just about if you answer a fool, but how. The warning isn't against engaging at all, but against mirroring the fool's own "folly" in your response, lest you d…
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Last reviewed October 2026
