Proverbs 21:14
A gift in secret averts anger, and a concealed bribe, strong wrath.
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Proverbs 21:14
A gift in secret averts anger, and a concealed bribe, strong wrath.
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This verse highlights that the secrecy of a gift is what truly disarms anger. When a gift is given privately, it bypasses the giver's pride and the receiver's shame, making it far more effective at averting wrath than a public display. This suggests that genuine reconciliation often happens in quiet moments, away from the spotlight.
Proverbs is a collection of wise sayings, often presented as contrasts or observations about life. This verse appears within a section exploring the corrupting influence of wealth and the consequences of injustice, especially in legal or official settings. It follows discussions on dishonest gain and the dangers of greed, highlighting how such behavior ultimately leads to ruin.
Ever feel like you're walking on eggshells around someone? This proverb offers a surprising strategy for de-escalating conflict.
This verse reveals a potent, albeit unconventional, method for diffusing anger: a gift given in secret.
Why Secret?
Anger can feel like an uncontrollable fire. This proverb suggests a way to 'turn it down' or even extinguish it before it consumes everything.
The Hebrew word used here for 'averts' (or 'pacifies') is unique, appearing only in this verse. Scholars suggest it carries the meaning of 'turning away,' 'bending,' or even 'extinguishing.'
The Impact of the Gift:
Understand the original words
mattan · Hebrew Noun
An offering or present given to someone, often to gain favor or show respect. In legal or relational contexts, it can be used for good or, if misused as a bribe, can become a tool for corruption.
This passage shows Abigail using a substantial gift, presented secretly and humbly, to turn away David's fierce wrath, mirroring the proverb's insight into how a gift can avert anger.
Exodus 22:16-17While this speaks of restitution rather than bribery, the principle of 'paying a bride-price' or 'dowry' to secure a relationship and prevent future conflict touches on the idea of a transaction that appeases.
Matthew 5:25Jesus' teaching to 'settle matters quickly with your adversary' on the way to court implies a proactive approach to de-escalate conflict, similar to how a gift can prevent wrath from reaching its peak.
Romans 12:18This verse calls believers to 'live at peace with everyone,' suggesting that proactive efforts, even if they involve concessions or 'gifts' of goodwill, are essential for averting conflict and maintaining harmony.
jfbProverbs 21:14: "A gift in secret pacifieth anger: and a reward in the bosom strong wrath."
- The effect of bribery (Pr 17:23) is enhanced by secrecy, as the bribed person does not wish his motives made known.
bensonProverbs 21:14: "A gift in secret pacifieth anger: and a reward in the bosom strong wrath."
Proverbs 21:14 . A gift — Bestowed on a person offended and angry with us, as the following words show; in secret — That is, given in secret, which makes it more acceptable; for gifts openly given savour of ostentation in the giver: and cause some shame to the receiver; pacifieth anger — Removes all resentment, and conciliates love; and a reward in the bosom — Secretly conveyed into the bosom; strong wra…
This verse highlights that the secrecy of a gift is what truly disarms anger. When a gift is given privately, it bypasses the giver's pride and the receiver's shame, making it far more effective at averting wrath than a public display. This suggests that genuine reconciliation often happens in quiet moments, away from the spotlight.
Proverbs is a collection of wise sayings, often presented as contrasts or observations about life. This verse appears within a section exploring the corrupting influence of wealth and the consequences of injustice, especially in legal or official settings. It follows discussions on dishonest gain and the dangers of greed, highlighting how such behavior ultimately leads to ruin.
Proverbs is a collection of wise sayings, often presented as contrasts or observations about life. This verse appears within a section exploring the corrupting influence of wealth and the consequences of injustice, especially in legal or official settings. It follows discussions on dishonest gain and the dangers of greed, highlighting how such behavior ultimately leads to ruin.
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"A gift in secret averts anger, and a concealed bribe, strong wrath." — This verse highlights that the secrecy of a gift is what truly disarms anger. When a gift is given privately, it bypasses the giver's pride and the receiver's shame, making it far more effective at…