And he said to them, “Which of you who has a friend will go to him at midnight and say to him, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves,
English Standard Version (ESV)
Jesus' choice of "midnight" isn't just to highlight inconvenience; it emphasizes that God is ready to hear us even when it's the most unseasonable or difficult time for us to approach Him. The seemingly casual "Friend, lend me three loaves" also reveals a key part of prayer: approaching God with familiarity and trusting that our needs, and the needs of others, are worth bringing to Him.
And he said to them, “Which of you who has a friend will go to him at midnight and say to him, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves,
English Standard Version (ESV)
Jesus has just taught his disciples to pray, "Your will be done," and now he illustrates the importance of persistent prayer with a story. He asks them to imagine a scenario where a friend shows up unexpectedly at midnight needing basic provisions, highlighting the inconvenience and the need to ask persistently even when it's difficult. This sets the stage for Jesus to teach about God's willingness to answer those who earnestly and continuously seek Him.
Why would Jesus pick midnight, the absolute worst time to bother a friend? It's the ultimate test of persistence, showing us something profound about God.
Jesus uses the inconvenient hour of midnight to highlight God's unwavering availability. Unlike a human friend who might be deeply annoyed by a midnight knock, God is never truly inconvenienced. He is always awake, always ready to hear our prayers, no matter the hour or our perceived unworthiness.
A Friend in Need
The scenario is stark: a friend arrives unexpectedly, and you have nothing to offer. The only solution is to impose on another friend, even at a disruptive hour. This isn't about God being slow to answer, but about demonstrating that no time is 'too late' or 'too early' to approach the divine.
Beyond Human Limits
While the friend in the story might eventually give in out of sheer annoyance, God's motivation is entirely different. He doesn't respond because He's bothered into it. He responds because He is inherently loving and eager to give good gifts to His children.
The friend doesn't just ask once; he keeps knocking. Jesus is showing us that prayer isn't a one-time event, but a determined pursuit.
This parable emphasizes the importance of 'importunity' – a persistent, determined, and even bold approach to prayer. The man needing bread doesn't give up after the first refusal. He continues to ask, even when it's inconvenient for his friend.
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More Than Annoyance
While the parable uses the human reaction of annoyance to illustrate the point, the underlying principle for us is different. God doesn't grant our requests solely because we become bothersome. Instead, He encourages this persistence to:
Not a Transaction, but a Relationship
This isn't about manipulating God into giving us what we want. It's about engaging in a relationship where we continually bring our needs before our Heavenly Father, trusting that He hears and will provide in His perfect timing and way.
This passage, often called the 'triple promise' of prayer, directly echoes the principle that asking, seeking, and knocking will yield results, which is the core lesson Jesus is introducing in Luke 11.
Luke 11:9-13Immediately following this parable, Jesus contrasts the human friend's reluctant giving with a loving Father's willingness to give good gifts, reinforcing the idea of God's abundant generosity to those who pray.
Genesis 18:22-33Abraham's persistent intercession for Sodom and Gomorrah demonstrates a deep, faith-filled persistence in prayer, mirroring the 'importunity' Jesus highlights in the parable.
1 Kings 18:41-44Elijah's repeated prayer for rain, sending his servant to look seven times, powerfully illustrates the kind of earnest, unyielding perseverance Jesus is teaching.
vincentLuke 11:5: "And he said unto them, Which of you shall have a friend, and shall go unto him at midnight, and say unto him, Friend, lend me three loaves;"
Set beforeSee on Luke 9:16.
wesleyLuke 11:5: "And he said unto them, Which of you shall have a friend, and shall go unto him at midnight, and say unto him, Friend, lend me three loaves;"
11:5 At midnight - The most unseasonable time: but no time is unseasonable with God, either for hearing or answering prayer.
Jesus' choice of "midnight" isn't just to highlight inconvenience; it emphasizes that God is ready to hear us even when it's the most unseasonable or difficult time for us to approach Him. The seemingly casual "Friend, lend me three loaves" also reveals a key part of prayer: approaching God with familiarity and trusting that our needs, and the needs of others, are worth bringing to Him.
Jesus has just taught his disciples to pray, "Your will be done," and now he illustrates the importance of persistent prayer with a story. He asks them to imagine a scenario where a friend shows up unexpectedly at midnight needing basic provisions, highlighting the inconvenience and the need to ask persistently even when it's difficult. This sets the stage for Jesus to teach about God's willingness to answer those who earnestly and continuously seek Him.
Jesus has just taught his disciples to pray, "Your will be done," and now he illustrates the importance of persistent prayer with a story. He asks them to imagine a scenario where a friend shows up unexpectedly at midnight needing basic provisions, highlighting the inconvenience and the need to ask persistently even when it's difficult. This sets the stage for Jesus to teach about God's willingness to answer those who earnestly and continuously seek Him.
"And he said to them, “Which of you who has a friend will go to him at midnight and say to him, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves," — Jesus' choice of "midnight" isn't just to highlight inconvenience; it emphasizes that God is ready to hear us even when it's the most unseasonable or difficult time for us to approach Him. The seemin…
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