Ever feel that urge to win an argument, even at the cost of peace? Paul calls out a specific behavior for those serving God.
Not Quarrelsome, but Kind
Paul immediately contrasts the Lord's servant with being "quarrelsome." This isn't just about avoiding shouting matches; it's about a deep-seated tendency to fight over words or opinions. True servants of God are called to be the opposite: kind to everyone. This kindness isn't weak or passive; it's an active, gracious disposition that reflects God's own character towards us.
This kindness is the foundation for everything else that follows. It's the soil from which patience and effective teaching grow.