1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
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Notice that the verse starts with what love is—patient and kind—before moving to what it isn't. This isn't just a list of prohibitions; it highlights that the positive qualities of love are the very things that prevent envy, boasting, and arrogance from taking root. True love actively builds up, making it impossible to simultaneously tear down with negative attitudes.
Paul is addressing divisions and immaturity within the Corinthian church, contrasting their present squabbles with the superior way of love described here. He's just explained that spiritual gifts, while important, are useless without love, and he's about to show how love endures when other gifts fade. This passage serves as a radical reorientation for a community obsessed with status and power.
We often think of love as a feeling, but Paul describes it as an action. The first action? Patience.
Love's Unhurried Heart
Paul kicks off his famous definition of love with 'patient.' This isn't just about waiting your turn; it's about having a long fuse, especially with people who frustrate you.
Right after patience, Paul mentions kindness. What does this active gentleness look like in practice?
Kindness: Love's Gentle Touch
'Kind' is more than just being nice; it's about being actively good, beneficial, and helpful to others. It’s love in action, reaching out to serve.
Paul doesn't stop at what love is, but also what it isn't. Envy, boasting, and arrogance are love's sworn enemies.
Rejecting Love's Destructive Impulses
Paul makes it clear: true love fundamentally rejects self-serving attitudes that destroy connection.
These qualities—envy, boasting, arrogance—are all rooted in insecurity and a focus on self. Mature, godly love shifts the focus outward.
Understand the original words
makrothymeō · Greek Verb
The quality of long-suffering or enduring steadfastness in the face of provocation or difficulty, refusing to retaliate.
chrēsteuomai · Greek Verb
An active commitment to do good and show benevolence to others, reflecting the gracious character of God.
zēloō · Greek Verb
A sinful disposition of covetousness or jealousy over the success, possessions, or gifts of another, contrary to brotherly affection.
perpereuomai · Greek Verb
An attitude of self-importance or prideful display, often characterized by talking excessively about one's own achievements or status.
physioō · Greek Verb
A sense of inflated self-importance or pride, often manifested as "puffed up" attitudes that look down on others.
aschēmoneō · Greek Verb
Behavior that violates social norms or Christian decorum, characterized by a lack of graciousness or consideration for others.
paroxynō · Greek Verb
A lack of quick temper or sensitivity; the ability to remain calm and composed rather than becoming provoked by external stimuli.
logizomai kakon · Greek Verb phrase
The state of holding onto past wrongs or injuries, characterized by an unwillingness to forgive or let go of grievances.
chairei · Greek Verb
To experience joy, gladness, or delight. In a moral sense, it refers to the orientation of one's heart toward something and finding satisfaction in it.
adikia · Greek Noun
An act, state, or practice that is contrary to God’s law, standard, or character; moral unrighteousness or injustice.
alētheia · Greek Noun
That which is consistent with the character, word, and nature of God; divine reality as opposed to human deception or falsehood.
agapē · Greek Noun
The primary biblical term for divine, self-sacrificial, and unconditional love that seeks the highest good of another regardless of the cost to oneself.
stegei · Greek Verb
Literally 'to cover.' In this context, it refers to shielding others, keeping confidences, or patiently bearing burdens without exposure or retaliation.
pisteuei · Greek Verb
A foundational Christian virtue of trust; placing confidence in God or, in a relational context, choosing to view others through a lens of faith and grace.
elpizei · Greek Verb
An optimistic expectation grounded in God’s promises; the confident anticipation of future good based on God’s faithfulness.
hypomenei · Greek Verb
To remain firm or hold one's ground under pressure, hardship, or persecution without giving up or collapsing.
This passage echoes the qualities of love by calling believers to 'clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience,' directly relating to love's patient and kind nature.
1 Peter 4:8Peter emphasizes that 'above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins,' highlighting love's forgiving and covering aspect, which aligns with patience and not keeping score.
Galatians 5:22-23The fruit of the Spirit includes patience and kindness, demonstrating that these attributes are not just human efforts but divine qualities that flow from a life surrendered to God's Spirit, enabling true love.
Proverbs 14:29This proverb speaks to the practical outworking of love by stating, 'Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly,' underscoring the value of patience in demonstrating wisdom and avoiding foolishness.
Notice that the verse starts with what love is—patient and kind—before moving to what it isn't. This isn't just a list of prohibitions; it highlights that the positive qualities of love are the very things that prevent envy, boasting, and arrogance from taking root. True love actively builds up, making it impossible to simultaneously tear down with negative attitudes.
Paul is addressing divisions and immaturity within the Corinthian church, contrasting their present squabbles with the superior way of love described here. He's just explained that spiritual gifts, while important, are useless without love, and he's about to show how love endures when other gifts fade. This passage serves as a radical reorientation for a community obsessed with status and power.
Paul is addressing divisions and immaturity within the Corinthian church, contrasting their present squabbles with the superior way of love described here. He's just explained that spiritual gifts, while important, are useless without love, and he's about to show how love endures when other gifts fade. This passage serves as a radical reorientation for a community obsessed with status and power.
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things,…" — Notice that the verse starts with what love is—patient and kind—before moving to what it isn't. This isn't just a list of prohibitions; it highlights that the positive qualities of love are the v…
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